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 Dear Aunty Lisa,

I LOVE my husband but had the most amazing sex with a colleague recently.

I know we should just be friends but my feelings for him are growing stronger all the time. I’m obsessed. I was a stay-at-home mum until last year when I went back to work part-time for an insurance company. I am 31, my husband is 46 and we have three beautiful girls.

My husband is a lovely man and a brilliant dad. I hated work at first but a colleague started chatting to me and before long I began to look forward to us being in the office together. My husband did comment on all the new clothes I was buying and that I got my hair styled differently. I just said I had to fit in with all the younger girls at work.

This colleague started flirting with me but when he found out I was married he said: "We have to stay just friends then."

We backed off for a few weeks but one day he asked me to have a drink with him at lunchtime. We had a real laugh and chatted so easily I could not remember when I last felt so relaxed. That night he offered to give me a lift home as he lives in the same town as me. As he was dropping me off at the end of our road I leaned over and gave him a kiss on the cheek. It was like a green light and we could not stop kissing.

He said: "Whoops, we’d better do this somewhere safer," so he drove to a quiet car park.

We carried on and then he asked if I would go back to his place. There was no way I was going to refuse so I texted my husband that I had to work late. Once we got to his flat we made love in a beautiful way, then he took me home. I am completely head-over-heels in love with this man, who is only two years younger than me.

It is wrong, I know, and I should not be having these feelings for another man.

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