A former senior prostitute who claims to have slept with more than 10,000 men has revealed the surprising things men will pay for as she tells women what blokes want in bed .
After more than a decade in the adult industry, Australian woman Gwyneth Montenegro, 39, has detailed her experience and sexual wisdom in a new book.
Montenegro details how men prefer women with small boobs with a real feel – and in fact women of all shapes and sizes can be the centre of a man’s attentions rather than the stereotypical glamour type.
“A little-known secret in the punting world, is that there are quite a lot of men who will actively seek out escorts who are not the hottest of the hot women and go for someone who isn’t as classically beautiful, because they feel shy and sometimes a little inadequate themselves. If you’ve got them (big boobs), there’s a market. If you don’t, there’s a market too. I wouldn’t lose too much sleep over it,” she said.
This can even extend to age, with some preferring older more mature women, not just younger females. Her new book, The Secret Taboo – The Ultimate Insider’s Guide To Being a Financially Successful Escort, details how to be financially successful in the industry. Montenegro said the most important thing for clients was the “feeling of being needed and wanted” by a “horny woman”, The Sun reports. And they really wanted a connection and conversation with the woman they were paying.
It was all about attention, she said.
“(Women need to) make it look like you want him bad and are enjoying him so much (even if you aren’t),” she told the paper.
The surprises also extended to how women dressed – she said women should not dress in an overly revealing manner as mystery was important.
Mirror Online previously reported how Montenegro cashed in $2,000 a night from her punters.
But following her 12 years in the sex industry she said most men didn’t turn to her for “hardcore kinky sex” but because they felt threatened in their own relationships. Gwyneth, 39, said a lot of her clients wanted to “feel masculine again”.
She said she is glad to be away from the industry and now teaches women how to “understand” men and make the most of their relationships. In 2014, she told she became hooked on her champagne and cocaine lifestyle afforded by her romps – 90 per cent of which were with married men. She said a combination of being ruthlessly bullied throughout her childhood and having seriously low self esteem sent her spiralling down to the dark depths of the sex industry.
She had said: “At school I was bullied because I was very shy and introverted person – I was an easy target. I also had very low self esteem at the time, so a combination of those two made me feel not too good about myself.