‘I found lula lula messages between my boyfriend and my mother, I confronted him and he confessed’

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Dear Aunty Lisa

The start of my relationship with Travis was amazing. He was r0mantic and we couldn’t stand to be apart.

But then it turned toxic. He cheated several times, but I was a mug and kept forgiving him and believing he would change.

He used to cry and beg me to stay. I felt sorry for him.

Back in February 2018, I was rushed to the hospital with bad contractions. I rang Travis and he didn’t answer the first few times until eventually, I got through.

He told me something had come up and therefore he wasn’t going to make it. He came later on that night to visit me and the baby in the hospital and acted fine.

I didn’t notice anything weird about at this point. We went back home and lived a normal life for a while.”

I didn’t find out until two years later. My neighbours showed me camera footage of my mum constantly entering and leaving my property when I wasn’t home, which made me suspicious.

I then found messages between my mother and Travis, with nud_e photos and details and dates of the incidents, including when I was giving birth. I confronted him and he confessed.

I felt heartbroken, betrayed and like a failure. I blamed myself for months.

As soon as I found out, I packed Travis’ stuff and threw it over the balcony and told him to leave.

I’ve never looked back and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. My mother and I also stopped talking once I found this out.

I shared it on TikTok and couldn’t believe the amount of views, likes and comments it received. It was crazy.

A lot of people were in shock and disgusted in my mother and ex-boyfriend. Some saw it as a joke but the ones who knew the truth took it to heart.

My advice for anyone who has been through similar things is just please don’t ever be a mug and take them back.

I know you love them and it’s hard to let go but believe me they will never change, and you’ll just continue to hurt yourself until you can’t cope anymore.

Please put yourself first, know your own worth and don’t ever settle for less. I have since moved on with my life and am expecting a baby in December – I have shared my story to help others who might have been through similar experiences.


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