My church prophet wants to have lula lula with me. Help!

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Dear Aunty Lisa,

I hope this letter finds you in good health and high spirits. I apologize for reaching out to you with such a sensitive and distressing matter, but I find myself in a troubling situation and I am in dire need of your guidance.

Recently, I have been faced with an unsettling proposition from someone I held in high regard within my church community. Our church prophet, whom I trusted and respected, has expressed a desire to engage in an inappropriate relɑtionship with me. This revelation has left me feeling confused, violated, and deeply hurt. I never anticipated such a situation arising within the sacred space of our church.

As I grapple with this distressing revelation, I turn to you, Aunty Lisa, for your wise counsel. I am torn between my desire to protect the sanctity of our church and the need to confront this individual and seek justice for the harm they have caused. I trust your judgment and insight, and I kindly request your advice on how I should approach this delicate situation.

Your years of experience and your compassionate nature have always provided solace and guidance to those in need, which is why I am seeking your wisdom at this critical juncture in my life. How should I confront the church prophet about his inappropriɑte advances? Should I involve other members of the church leadership? And how can I ensure that justice is served while minimizing any potential harm to the reputation of the church?

Aunty Lisa, your advice and support mean the world to me, and I am grateful for your assistance in navigating this difficult situation. I trust that your counsel will help me find the strength and clarity to make the right choices and protect both myself and the integrity of our church community.

Thank you for your unwavering support, Aunty Lisa. I eagerly await your response and the guidance you provide. May your words be a guiding light in this dark moment of my life.

With heartfelt regards,



Aunty Lisa’s Advice:

Dear Laura,

I am deeply sorry to hear about the distressing situation you find yourself in. It takes great courage to reach out and seek advice when faced with such a sensitive matter, and I commend you for taking this step.

First and foremost, remember that your well-being and safety should always be your top priority. No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable or violate your boundaries, regardless of their position within the church or any other institution. It is crucial to trust your instincts and stand up for yourself.

In dealing with this situation, I suggest the following steps:

  1. Seek support from trusted individuals: Reach out to someone you trust, such as a close friend, family member, or another respected member of the church community. Sharing your experience with them can provide emotional support and validation.
  2. Document incidents: Keep a record of any inappropriate behaviour, including dates, times, and details of conversations or encounters. This documentation may be helpful if you decide to report the situation to church leadership or the appropriate authorities.
  3. Speak to the church leadership: Approach a trusted member of the church’s leadership team, such as a pastor or elder, to discuss the situation. Share your concerns and provide them with any evidence you have gathered. It is important to give the church an opportunity to address the issue internally and take appropriate action.
  4. Consider involving the authorities: If the church fails to address the situation adequately or if you feel that your safety is at risk, it may be necessary to involve the relevant authorities. Consult with a legal professional who can guide you through this process and help protect your rights.

Remember, you are not alone in this difficult journey. Lean on your support network, seek professional advice if needed, and always prioritize your well-being. Healing takes time, but with patience and resilience, you will overcome this adversity.

Wishing you strength and courage,

Aunty Lisa

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