Dear Aunty Lisa
Recently I fell in l0ve with a young girl. At the beginning of our relɑtionship, she told me that she had a b0yfriend but she is not serious with the person.
So I continued with her and she l0ved me but one day her b0yfriend learnt about it and became very annoyed with her.
I wanted to leave her but she insists that we go on. Advice please.
Aunty Lisa Responds:
It sounds like you find yourself in a complicated situation. As Aunty Lisa, I’m here to offer you some advice based on the information you’ve shared.
Firstly, it’s important to consider the feelings and well-being of everyone involved, including yourself, the young girl, and her b0yfriend. While she may have expressed that her relɑtionship with her boyfriend is not serious, it’s crucial to respect their existing commitment and the emotions involved.
Continuing a relɑtionship under these circumstances can lead to further complications and hurt feelings. It’s important to assess whether this situation aligns with your personal values and what you ultimately seek in a relɑtionship.
Open communication is key. Have an honest conversation with the young girl about your concerns, her relɑtionship with her b0yfriend, and the potential consequences of your involvement. It’s essential to listen to her perspective and understand her intentions moving forward.
Ultimately, the decision rests with you. Consider your own emotions, values, and what you believe is best for your own happiness and well-being. Ending the relɑtionship may be a difficult decision, but it could save everyone involved from further pain and complications.
Remember, it’s important to prioritize honesty, respect, and integrity when navigating relɑtionships. Seek advice from trusted friends or family members who can provide you with additional support and guidance.
Take care of yourself and make choices that align with your principles and desires.