Dear Aunty Lisa
I’ve been staying with this guy at my late parents’ house for a little while now and it seems like sometimes he’s interested and sometimes he’s not.
He tells me he loves me when he’s sober, but when he’s drunk he’s always rude to me.
One night he came home drunk and said he only loves me for se_x and has no intentions to pay lobola for me.
The next morning I asked him if he meant everything he said and he called me a liar. Last weekend he repeated the same words. The following morning he apologised and blamed beer after I told him to pack his clothes and leave.
I told my neighbour, who is also a drunkard, what my boyfriend always says and he said ‘a drunk man means whatever he says’.
I also asked the same question to all my male friends and got mixed replies and now I’m more confused.
Please help me, what should I do?