Dear Aunty Lisa,
I am an 18-year-old girl who is facing a problem that I don’t know how to handle. I have a b0yfriend who is also my neighbour, and we have ƨǝx frequently. Sometimes, we end up having ƨǝx when he is helping me with my maths. However, since we started having ƨǝx, I find myself playing with my vɑg!nɑ every night.
Recently, my aunt heard me and thought that I was in pain. She came into my room and saw me half-nudǝ, and she asked me what was wrong because she heard me groaning. I was so embarrassed and didn’t know what to say. My b0yfriend suggested that I need more ƨǝx.
I don’t know what to think, and I don’t know what to do. Is something wrong with me? Why do I find myself playing with my vɑg!nɑ every night? And is it true that I need more ƨǝx?
I feel so lost and confused, and I don’t know who to turn to. I would appreciate any advice you can offer me on this matter.
Lost and Confused
Aunty Lisa Responds:
Dear Lost and Confused,
Thank you for reaching out to me with your concerns. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and need some guidance.
Firstly, it is important to understand that there is nothing wrong with exploring your b0dy and experiencing ƨǝxuɑl pleasure. However, it is also important to understand the risks associated with having ƨǝx at a young age, such as prǝgnɑncy and ƨǝxuɑlly trɑnsmitted infections.
It is concerning that your b0yfriend suggested that you need more ƨǝx. You should never feel pressured to engage in ƨǝxuɑl activities that you are not comfortable with or that could potentially harm you. It is important to have open and honest communication with your partner and set boundaries that you are both comfortable with.
Regarding your grandmother’s reaction, it is understandable that she would be concerned if she heard you groɑning. However, it may be helpful to have a conversation with her and explain what was happening. You can assure her that you are not in any pain and that you are exploring your b0dy in a safe and healthy way.
In conclusion, it is important to prioritize your physical and emotional well-being. It may be helpful to speak to a trusted adult or seek professional guidance to help you navigate this situation and make informed decisions about your ƨǝxuɑl health.
I hope this advice helps you, and I wish you all the best.